How uchatamisa mwana mumwe chikoro, uye kana kuzviita?

zvikonzero zvakawanda zvinoita vabereki kufunga kuchinja zvikoro. How uchatamisa mwana mumwe kuchikoro? Ndinofanira kuzviita? Lovemore mwana wako nani ari chikwata chitsva? Kubva mibvunzo iyi, unogona kuputsa musoro, pamberi pakupedzisira kusarudza. Oddly zvakakwana, vakawanda shanduro haina chokuita nokuchiva mudzidzi. Vana, kusiyana vabereki - ari kuchinja chaizvo, ivo ajairane chero mamiriro, kunyange kana vachiita kana havadi. Mukuwedzera, havasi kunakidzwa noupenyu ruzivo, kunzwisisa mamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana sezvisina.

Kana mwana wacho kutamira kune imwe chikoro kushaya chinangwa zvikonzero (ichifamba, hazvibviri kugona chirongwa ichi, urwere, etc.), Ungangove, vabereki havasi kugutsikana mudzidzisi, kunyanya kuchikoro chepuraimari. Zvinofungidzirwa kuti mudzidzisi zvainoita paumbwe unhu mwana kuchikoro chepuraimari hwakakura kwazvo, kazhinji pazera iri simba rake "zvinozodzikatidza" mubereki. Anogona chifunga moms uye vanotiza yeuka "vadzidzisi vavo vokutanga." Chokwadi, pamutemo tinofara kwavari, asi kunobva zvevapi vamazano vakadaro isu vanorota vana vavo? Kunyange mumazuva iwayo nevadzidzisi rombo rakanaka kwete zvakawanda, kunyange zvazvo "smithy" Soviet hurongwa unokubvumira "kuumba" vakadzikama kwepfuti. Zvino zvinhu pamwe chikoro nedzidziso mudonzvo kunosiya zvakawanda anodikamwa. Saka, kufunga sei uchatamisa mwana mumwe chikoro, unofanira kuziva kuti mudzidzisi mutsva ingasava nani pane yapfuura.

Inenge ndiye nyaya nechikwata chevana. Kukundikana mwana kukurukura nevezera ravo - chimwe chikonzero zvakajairika kuti kutsvaka nzvimbo itsva dzokudzidza. Zvinoitika kuti mwanakomana kana mwanasikana vanonzwa mukirasi saimba, vashayiwa shamwari dzakanaka. Pane mamiriro ezvinhu akaipa kana mwana ari kushungurudzwa chaiye navo (panzira, muchiitiko ichi, kwete muduku mhosva ndiye mudzidzisi, kunyanya kunzvimbo mamakisi), saka shanduro aizova chete kuzvipedza. Kana ingori kutadza kuvaka ukama vana, zviri nani kwete kukurumidza. Muchiitiko chino, unofanira kufunga kwete sei kushandisa mwana mumwe chikoro nokuti shanduro haasi kazhinji kugadzirisa dambudziko kuti waizomuka, uye panzvimbo itsva.

Munhu wese, kunyange kana mbudzana chaizvo vanofanira kudzidza kutanga kutaurirana pachavo. Find zvakawanda kana zvishoma akasununguka nzvimbo yake munzanga - munhu akaoma, asi zvakakosha kwazvo basa, izvo achasiya chiratidzo chacho kwemakore akawanda. Zviri pachena chido vabereki vape mwana wavo zvakanaka zvose, uye kumudzivirira kubva nenhamo. Asi, achimutadzisa kubva chikoro kuchikoro mu kunotsvaka "upenyu iri nani", zvakaoma zvinobvira kuita zvinodiwa. Pave paya, mwanakomana uye mwanasikana kare vakura huchagadzirisa zvavo pachavo, mhuri, uye basa zvakatipoteredza nyaya kuburikidza rusingaperi chinja. Vana ava, vabereki zvakare sevasingafungi anomera "harimboonekwi shasha". Saka, vabereki vanofanira chaizvo zvakanaka kuongorora "zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira" usati afungisise sei uchatamisa mwana mumwe chikoro.

Kana nyaya watopiwa pachena kugadziriswa, uye kusarudza wechikoro chitsva yakaitwa, hazvina zvakakodzera kunonoka kuchinjwa. mwana Revabereki nechokwadi uye kuverengera hakuzofadzi kubatsirwa. Kuziva kuti vana vose kusakoshesa, tinofanira kuva nechokwadi chokuti vari kurudyi uye wovaita kuvimba chete mupfungwa dzako.

Zvakaoma kupfuura yakanga mutsika kusarudza rokushandura, uye magadzirirwo ezvidzidzo urongwa hwake - ichi hachisi chinetso. Ndawana mvumo wechikoro chitsva uye gwaro okuverengwa, unofanira kuratidza kuti akwegura mukuru, kunhonga magwaro anodiwa mwana (wezvokurapa kadhi uye private mabhizimisi), anonzi kuchikoro chitsva uye kuwana maoko enyu pamusoro akarayira kuti kubvuma. Rombo rakanaka!