Mitemo Ellen Feyn uye Angella Schneider, "Sei kuroorwa nomunhu kurota kwake"

Tinogona kutaura takasununguka kuti mubvunzo sei kuroorwa nomunhu kurota kwake, anotambudzika kwazvo munhukadzi vemo. Hazvina basa sei nevakawanda nhasi ari ukama rakavhurika, kurambwa gungano uye vehurumende muchato. Chero zvakanga, muchato ari kuziva kukomba Zvinovavarirwa vose pane vakaroorana uye kukwanisa kutora basa hwavo.

Ukama Mitemo: kusaziva haisi chikonzero migumisiro

Zvinokosha mberi, kufambisa upenyu hwedu nhasi rava zvachose yokuzvidira ukama hwevakaroorana. Nekuti zvino kunyange vabereki 'kusarudza, kana kumanikidzwa National tsika, kana kunyange nhumbu haisiri kutungamirira kumuchato. Panyaya iyi, varume vanoda kubatanidza kutapwa kwavo mukadzi nemhosva mbiri inokosha.

Zvisinei, rusununguko rwakadaro, semamwe anoyevedza zvinhu kunoshandurwa. Vasikana vakawanda zvishoma kuvhiringidzika, varasikirwa varipo muchimiro tsika dzemunharaunda yokuzvibata uye vasingakwanisi kuvimba nezano uye kutungamirirwa vamiririri nezvizvarwa. Kunenge kuti zvose zvava nyore, asi hazvisi: zvose zvakanga zvakasiyana. Mitemo mutambo chakachinja ukama, uye vanofanira kuziva kuti kuhwina, kwete taitofanira pamusoro pakachengeteka ichimirira zvoupenyu paruzhinji.

Mumwe anogona nharo pafungidziro kuti zvakasikwa nzira pokumuka ukama pakati pevarume nevakadzi rinoda kugadziriswa, asi chokwadi hachisi vaneshungu yezororo dzorudo. Pano refu Panodyidzanwa rokutambudzikira, shoko iri kwakafanana kuroorana kukuru.

Kuti tinzwisise hunhu zvido zvavo uye misimboti zvepfungwa varume, vasikana nevakadzi vanoda kubatsirwa nazvo varairiri. Kwemakore anopfuura 20 basa iri vakabudirira akaita Ellen Feyn uye Angella Schneider, uyo akanyora bhuku akakurumbira "The Rules. How kuroorwa nomunhu kurota kwake. "

Nokuti mumwe kuumba mutemo

Chokutanga, bhuku rino tiriverenge vasikana vanoda kusika mhuri. Maererano nevanyori, mitemo yavo zvakagadzirirwa kubatsira kuvaka-yakareba, azere uye simba ukama. Kana iye hesitates pamusoro zvinangwa kana vanosarudza nyore muenzaniso ukama nevanhu, hazvina zvakakodzera kutevedzera mirayiridzo vakaradzika pasi.

Mitemo Ellen Feyn kunge yakatanga pashure pemakore kudzidza uye kuongorora upenyu pavakadzi vazhinji. 35 points, izvo nenzira yakajeka zvikuru kuronga mirayiridzo unhu vasikana dzave akagadzira pachishandiswa iri akagamuchira mashoko mukufamba pakutsvakurudza munyori.

yakakwirira kunyatsoshanda

Pasinei chokwadi kuti bhuku rakanyorwa uye yakabudiswa shure muna 1995, kukosha kwayo hakuna ipfupi. Uyezve, mitemo Ellen Fein akaongorora zvakawanda vakadzi verenga basa rake. Reviews vanoti mitemo kushanda.

Bhuku rakashandurirwa mumitauro yokumwe uye akapikisa vazhinji Bhaibheri. Reviews zvakanyorwa pariri raishanda mabhuku ose makuru American uye vanyori vaigara vachikoka somueni pamusoro siyana zvinoratidzwa paterevhizheni.

Ndaziva nheyo uye mitemo ukama pakati pevarume nevakadzi, hachishandi akabatsira vakakurumbira vakadai Opra Uinfri, Beyonce, Bleyk Lavli, Keyt Middlton nevamwe. Muna Studio, Oprah kazhinji akanzwa mashoko kubva mubhuku mitemo uye Ellen Fein.

Sherri Shnayder uye wake waaishanda akanga kaviri vakokwa kuti TV iyi yakakurumbira presenter.

The chikuru musimboti kunenge

Kana ukaedza tsonyera zvinoreva bhuku rose mutongo rimwe, zvingadai kwainge mazano nokuda naka pabonde: ". Musaora musoro wako, kuwana zvaunokwanisa uye kuvaratidza kumunhu" Panyaya iyi, kuti kusarudza basa ndokwaJehovha kuti vasaratidza kudaidzwa kusakwana kwavo uye kwete kutendeuka munhu kupinda musikana. Mitemo Ellen Feyn dzinobva ndechokuti vanhu simba (Kutaura zvazviri zvakadaro ndiyo yakanakisisa varume) ndivo vavhimi pachisikirwo. Rukundo muropa ravo, uye havasi zvemigodhi, izvo zvisati vanoenda kunotsvaka maro.

Mumwe nomumwe ane yayo basa

Bhuku "The Rules. How kuroorwa nomunhu kurota kwake "rinobatsira vakadzi kuti vave" chayabata unodikanwa "uye kuronga muitiro" kuvhima zvakanaka. " Pashure pezvose kukodzera vanhu vanosarudza vega chete akanakisisa vamiririri zvakavapoteredza uye achiedza kukwezva pfungwa dzavo. Muitiro achikunda kukunda zvipingamupinyi vanhu kunokosha zvikuru, sezvo chinangwa anopa kukoshesa, kukosha uye zvinoreva. Vakadzi vane uzivi mutorwa unozvidzinga kure zvinogona varume chaiyo nekuti runosanganisirawo kusashandisa yavaitora chinhu muukama kana kuedza nyore rwevamiriri vavo. Bhuku "Rules" rinofumura ichi uye zvimwe zvakafanana nokukanganisa mukadzi zvepfungwa uye proposes kongiri matanho kuzvidzivisa.

Categorical uye austerity mitemo

Vamwe vaverengi vakanyunyuta kuti mitemo vari kuomesera, uye zvoramba kwavari kwakaoma. Mhinduro inogona kushanda kanzuru hwokufungazve pokutanga uye kuwana vavariro. Pashure Ellen Fein mitemo yakanyorwa vaya vanoda kuva ukama chakakomba. Izvi hazvirevi vaviri nemakore co-kuvapo pamusoro chimwe dzimba.

Tiri kutaura kudyidzana kwemakumi emakore. Kunyatsotsanangura! On a dzakazara Kudyidzana: kuremekedzana, yakawiriranwa kukura, zvemari hwakanaka, Anobvumirana pabonde upenyu, kuberekwa uye zvokurera vana uye kuramba kufarira mumwe mune ramangwana. Ndiro basa rakaoma, pashure zvose mapfumo uye uende aibuda nyore zvikuru, uye isingafadzi migumisiro maitiro akadai aizivikanwa zhinji.

How kusika mufananidzo mukadzi anonakidza

Bhuku "Mitemo" asingadi kushevedzera nhema uye edza kufungidzira zvakasiyana munhu, Zvinokurudzirwa kunzwisisa pachako, kuwana uye kupa ayo zvakanakira zvakanaka. Nepfungwa huru iri kuchengetedza imwe makakatanwa, reticence pakati varume nevakadzi. Vakawanda kunenge nezvezvandaifanira sei zvakanaka kuramba zviri zvakafanira kure. Somuenzaniso, mutemo 3 zvikurukuru akadzidzisa kwete kutambisa kuitwa vaya vasingafariri. Asi ichi ndicho rinenge inonyanya chikanganiso vakadzi.

Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu (mwero zviratidzo zvaiti, mufaro uye tsika) zano inokosha ndiko kuva nyore kukurukura uye kwete kuva dambudziko nevarume. Rule 3, uye vamwe arakaitwa mubhuku kuteterera kuna avo vakadzi vane nechiremwaremwa sokugamuchira tsanangudzo matambudziko avo uye matambudziko.

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izvi zvose oma pakutanga kuaona vanorumbidza akagadzirirwa iumbe mufananidzo ane dzinonakidza, kushingaira, vakadzidza, nguva dzose vakabatikana zvenyika uye akabvunza mukadzi. Maererano nevanyori, zviri kuda kuona madzimai avo vanoti vanhu vanobudirira.

Pane upenyu pashure pamuchato

Kushandisa zvakakodzera mukurumbira uye kuwana yakawanda tsamba, Ellen uye Sherry vakakwanisa kuongorora hombe uwandu nyaya chaiyo youpenyu. bhuku rechipiri rakanyorwa pachishandiswa kwayo, akanzi "Rules mudzimai akangwara."

Munyori akataura kuti vaverengi vachishandisa zvinorondedzerwa nzira kare uye mitemo aigona riitwe kana kuroorwa. Zvisinei, panguva ino, nyaya vava yakatokura. How kuratidza mwenga nomurume wake? Zvinoita kuzorora uye kumisa aurayiwe mitemo yakasimba? kwete kuita zvikanganiso uye regai kukanganisa zvinhu kare yakavakwa?

Izvi zvinhu akafukidzwa itsva bhuku. It rakagadzirirwa vasikana uye nechinangwa kuramba kufarira mukadzi wacho ari zvakachinja ezvinhu.