Chii zvinyadzi? dambudziko mutauro unonyadzisira

Familiar muhurukuro Pfungwa angava kukodzera, chete vanhu kashoma kufunga nezvazvo. Somugumisiro, vakuru vanogona chete vanoshamisika apo vana vadzidze "Mashoko akaipa" uye nei vari zvikuru anoyevedza. Chii mutauro kunonyadzisira, nei nokukurumidza zvakadaro anopararira, uye kurwisa sei?

Maererano neduramazwi rokuti

Academic tsanangudzo inogona akagadzira sezvinotevera: anonyadzisira - kutaura ichi, umo mune nokutuka majee mashoko. Nenguva zita zvakaipa chete kwete chete mutauro unonyadzisa, asiwo zvinonyadzisa mashoko akagadzirirwa kumhura uye chakagumbura interlocutor.

Crafty kuedza kuparadzanisa nhoo kubva "Unotenderwa" anonyadzisira chaizvoizvo chakagadzirirwa usapfuura mutsetse pakati zvinogamuchirika uye hazvibvumirwi nemashoko. Chii zvinyadzi, chaizvoizvo? Mupfungwa yakakura, zvinogona nemaune anorwadza, kunyange kana asina pejorative. Kazhinji unhu mashoko conventionally yakakamurwa pamusoro admissibility uye nokuda kuzviitira kusarudza vabvuma: kupomera mukurukuri kana kuwana kuti wakachengetwa mukati shaky undere.

Chii wechiduku yakaipa mutauro pfungwa?

Vakawanda regretfully vanobvuma kuti vana kubva zera nokuzvidira unizyvayut kutaura ake zvisizvo. Nei izvi zvichiitika? "Vakamukira nokuti kupandukira" kuyaruka inondimukira opinda nyore musimboti network. Chii chinofanira kuva chishandiso pakubudiririsa zvimwe zvinangwa, rakundwa sezvo chinangwa pacharo, pfungwa akaita haachatauri. Kana achiri kuyaruka kubvunza sei nokuzvidira saka nokupika, Ungangove, mhinduro iri kujeka tsananguro sezvinoita "zvose wakamhanya - I akamhanya."

Kana kuyaruka zvinomutsa mubvunzo "vanopika - izvi zvakaipa," Iye kamwe zvakare kugamuchira nokusimbisa kuti vakuru havanzwisisi chinhu. Chido kudzidzisa zvakanaka kuti pasinei anoita vakuru kune zvinake. Tinofanira kubvuma kuti nokutuka Mutauro aripo muupenyu hwezuva nezuva, uye zvizhinji zvokuti haambotauri nokusingaperi zvisizvo munhu anotarira vatorwa uye kufungira.

Mudzidzisi basa nderokudzidzisa

The chikoro edzidzo kushanda vanofanira kutora mudzidzisi kirasi. Chokwadi, izvi hazvirevi kuti vamwe vadzidzisi varambe vari kudivi - ndiye mushandirapamwe. mudzidzisi angaitei kukurira yakabudirira anonyadzisira pakati vadzidzi? Kirasi awa, Rakakwanira nyaya iyi inogona kuitwa maererano methodological mabhuku. Zvisinei, basa iri ratakapiwa nyaya haringorevi hurukuro yaitaura "Vana, vachipika hazvina kunaka!". Zvinobatsira enderana basa chete uye muenzaniso pachake pano kwakakosha.

zvokukurukura dzemunharaunda

Common mitemo kukurukura dzinoti anopika kukodzera. Muna vachipika muchikwata anofukidza kwete chete dzekare uchanja, asi anonyadzisira mazita sikarudzi, yomuviri zvinwiwa, mazita dzimwe mhuka, shiri, miti, zvinhu. Kana isu nyatsoongorora nokutuka duramazwi, tinogona chete kushamiswa kwayo kusiyana. Somuenzaniso, hapana chokunyara nacho, kana kuti chinoperevedza mu yehuku huku, asi huku kuti zita mukadzi, achiwedzera panguva iyoyo kuti shiri iri nyoro, hazvingaiti kuti achazvirangarira sezvo anokutenda.

A mhando okutuka utachiona anotambanudzira nokukurumidza chaizvo. Kutukwa vakanhonga nenzira kunyange vakuru, vana kunzwa mazuva ose kubva makumi kumazana vanopika mashoko. No hurukuro pamusoro uduku zvidavado ichi kukurukurirana haashandi, nokuti iyi dzidziso kunosimbiswazve nemashoko tsika. Herd mupfungwa makachengeteka akabata vaya vari kuedza kumisa chekubuda rantings. Kunyange zvakadaro, izvozvo zvinogona kukonzera zvikuru kana simba pamusoro anonyadzisira.

Energy simba mashoko

Munguva tsvakurudzo, masayendisiti kwakaratidza kuti ruzha vane simba hunhu, hunobata vamwe. It hwakasimbiswa kuti bhero achirira inokwanisa kuderedza huwandu pathogenic zvipenyu uye girazi remvura yaisanganisira weclassical kunonatsiridza maumbirwo kwayo.

Husina chete mubatanidzwa vasataura chivako. Kana vamwe nguva scolding mvura, kana chando inobereka kukwenezverwa sezvamunoita. Snowflakes vari vakawana zvirema, ivo havana mutete symmetry. Ndechipi zvinyadzi nesimba chinzvimbo? Chipikirwa ichi rinoparadza mune nzvimbo yakagadzirirwa kutakura zvakaipa chaizvo panguva samolecular chechetere.

Kushandisa mutauro unonyadzisa muupenyu hwezuva nezuva

Zhinji hondo zvose zvakatipoteredza dzimwe nguva akakungurutsa pamusoro. Kana kwokutanga mabasa ounyanzvi zvinonyadzisa mutauro akaisa mumuromo kunaka kutaurwa kusimbisa unhu hwavo zvakaipa, asi zvino ari pakarepo rudzi chiratidzo "coolness." The chaizvo dambudziko mutauro wakaipa ndiwo kuzvitsinhanisa kuti pfungwa. Poor akazivisa zvakanaka kana kanenge chinogamuchirika, zvinogamuchirika. Vabereki havaoni chinhu unokosha chokwadi kuti vanoshungurudza vana vavo, uye ipapo vanofanira kutaura netsika, uye ichi vashanduri oga mananara.

Sei Zimbabwian tsika yokutaura?

Hurukuro, hurukuro dzidzo nokuchera kutyisidzirwa, kana mumwe mwana ari yakagoverwa kutukwa inofanira kurohwa, pamwe kazhinji kushungurudzwa kuburikidza kuranga mukuru, kushanda chete aoma. Kana kuti, havasi kushanda sevadzidzisi tariro. Vana havambokwanisi kutsanangura chii chaizvoizvo chiri mutauro unonyadzisa. Mharidzo dzeminda sechinhu chinokosha pamusoro duramazwi kuti "vanhu inotonhora" kusuruvara akapoteredza chokwadi.

Zvinokosha kuyeuka nyore chokwadi kuti vana vadzidze nokuona vakuru. Kana vanhu vasiri vachipika, ipapo vana havasi nokungoti vanoona muenzaniso, uyo anoda kutevera. Chokwadi, mwana anogona kunhonga tsika yokutuka kubva kunze, asi kunyange ipapo vabereki nevadzidzisi vanofanira kuratidza uchenjeri. Nei vechiduku vari kasharara? "Kuti avaratidze zvose." Chii chaizvo kuratidza uye nei - mubvunzo uyu ungangova kukwanisa kupindura zvinenge mwana. Vanoda kuvhiringidza interlocutor akariisa kubva mwero. Kana izvi zvikasashanda, kukodzera chokushandisa achakurumidza kukanganwika, saka regai kusimudza kuchema kubva chokwadi kuti mwana akanga vakatukwa. Yakanyarara kushamisika anogona kushanda zvikuru zvakanyanya.

Chii chingataurwa ari kudzivirira kushungurudzwa?

Hazvina kuti mutauro wakashata zvisingarevi zvakawanda mhosva vose vakadzikama vanhu. Pane imwe pfungwa, maererano iyo, vashoma kokutuka kunobatsira kuderedza manzwiro Zvinetso, kuvhuvhuta kure chiutsi. maonero ichi sowakajeka akagadzira pedyo Gerbert Uells mu "The Code kuti kutukwa." Rinotsanangura munhu vaite nekunhonga uye collating mhando dzose kushungurudzwa. Devotee, purofesa Gnilstok, pangozi yake utano uye upenyu kunyange vanoripirwa muranda Calcutta uye akamudzinga, kwete kubhadhara mari. Uye zvose izvi chete nokuda, bindira nomufaro, zvinyorwa kufanira, izvo zvakatsamwisa Bengali akadiridza ake Nevavariro yakashata mushandirwi kwemaawa anoverengeka.

Wells akatumidza kushungurudzwa "gag mupfungwa", kuti ibhuku rinobatsira kutora chepfu panze uye kurarama. Emotional kuratidza expletives - zviri chete zvinoshamisa mhepo. Munhu akapika mweya, kashoma kuti varove kunobva, uye uyo ikadziviswa uye vanomanikidzwa kutsungirira, uye zvingangodaro ourayiwa. Chokwadi, kwakajeka munyori vakaseka ezvinhu pamwe anonyadzisira munyaya yake, asi ndinofunga vaverengi achawana mairi zvokudya pfungwa.