Rudo somunhu ukoshi

Rudo somunhu ukoshi (Love sezvo kukoshesana). Izvi mhando rudo rakakamurwa subtypes maviri:

1) nyaya rudo tsika rudo pacharwo, uye rudo kunzwisiswa se unhu tinyatsonzwisisa nyaya rudo pachinhu rudo;

2) nyaya anova zvinokosha kuti unoda nokuda kworudo rayo kwaari, t. E. In iyi, rudo akanzwisisa sezvo unhu nyaya anopa (zvipo) nezvaanoda.

Wokutanga shanduro inoomerera J. David Wellman, tuzvikonzero pfungwa yake Kant, inova zvakajeka kusiyana chiremera mutengo (chokwadi, Kant akataura musiyano pakati zvinoreva nezvinangwa parudo). Kushandisa zvoupfumi dimikira, tinogona kufunga kuti mutengo kuti nzira kuti ukoshi iyo inogona kuenzaniswa mari nezvimwe zvinhu kuburikidza mutengo. Izvi zvinoreva kuti munhu kufarira inogona kuchinjwa pasina kurasikirwa ukoshi. Kusiyana neizvi, ndine chiremera zvinoreva kuva ukoshi kuti hazvina maturo zvichienzaniswa nedzimwe ukoshi. Nemamwe mashoko, zvinhu vane mitengo, uye vanhu chiremerera, risingagoni kuenzaniswa. Maererano Kant, chiremera chedu sevanhu midzi yedu pfungwa hunhu, kugona kwedu kukurudzirwa zvikonzero kuti tiri kuchinja mune tsanangudzo zvinangwa zvedu uye kupindura tsika, wakafananidzwa nesu munyika. Saka, mumwe atinoita pfungwa hunhu kuremekedza chiremera zvakaitwa kune vamwe vanhu.

Chii runotigombedzera kuremekedza munhu? Wellman akati, kuti "chinodzivisa udyire" uye nokudaro kunotitadzisa ukama nenyaya rudo senzira kuzadzikisa zvinangwa zvedu. Achitenda kuti rudo afanane Achipindura chiremera wacho, kureva, zvinoti chiremera ndiyo chinhu tinodanana, uyewo kwarwakabva. Asi rudo uye ruremekedzo, pane mhando dzakasiyana akapindura zvakafanana nokukosha. Rudo haasi anorega redu kuzvidzora rudo. Asi, izvozvo anodzora manzwiro edu, kureva, Chinotiparadzanisa hazvivapi mupfungwa kuzvidzivirira pamberi vamwe uye nokudaro simba isu. Izvi zvinoreva kuti mubereko, unokwezva, tsitsi, etc. anowanzoshandurwa chokuita norudo, regai kuita rudo, asi vari panzvimbo pamusana kuipa uye rudo kunogona kuva pasina pavo.

Wellman haana hanya kupindura, zvichiguma pavo akarongwa maitiro (mubereko, etc.) uye chii rudo? (Nokuda kwechimwewo chikonzero, ndinonzwa sokuti achiti: pamwe mhino!) Chinhu chikuru ane mumwe rudo - zvose zvakafanana achipindura zvemashoko, asi kwete munhu wose. ( "Rudo ndiwo akanakisisa pane kunonyanyisa kushandisa mamwe.") Nei mhinduro yakadaro haina paakavapa vose? Uripi mutsara rwokusarudza? Wellman anotenda kuti kusarudzwa kunoitika apo vamwe vanhu vanoratidza kugona kuratidza chiremera chavo somunhu, nepo vamwe vanogona kunzwisisa mukana ichi, izvo, zvisinei, nokuti vamwe chikonzero, kwaanoda mupfungwa munjodzi. Saka pane tsamba pakati nomufambiro "pasi rudo" uye "Kukoshesa" pamusoro nyaya rudo.