Kwete-kubhadhara mibairo sekuputsika kukuru

Munhu wese anokwanisa kupiwa mubayiro webasa. Iri ndiro kodzero yake pachake, iyo inopihwa nemutemo weRussia. Zvisinei, havasi vashandisi vose vanoshanda zvakafanana maererano nemabasa avo. Chimwe chezvakaipa zvakakomba, izvo, zvinosuruvarisa, hazvisi zvisinganzwisisi ndezvisina kubhadhara mubhadharo. Kuti izvi zvirege kuitika, hurumende inodzora kukwana uye nguva yekubhadhara zvizere. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, zviyero zvinomanikidzwa zvinogona kutorwa, izvo zvinozviratidza pachavo semhosva yepamutemo kune vanotadza.

Kana chiitiko icho sangano risina kubhadhara mubhadharo, zvakanakisisa kutora matanho ekuriwana zvakare nokukurumidza. Pakutanga, iwe unofanira kuita kuda kumushandi. Inogona kupiwa mumunhu kana nekutumira. Kana uyo wavanoshandira akaramba kuita zvaunoda, uye iwe haugone kugadzirisa kusawirirana mukati me sangano, iwe unogona kukurudzira kukwidza ku komisheni inobata nharo dzebasa. Zvisinei, kutongwa kusati kwaitika hakusi nguva dzose kunounza mhinduro inotarisirwa kumushandi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kusina kubhadhara mibairo inova chikonzero chakasimba chokukwirira kumatare ekuchengetedza mitemo, zvakadai sehofisi yomupurisi kana mapurisa. Muchiitiko ichi, mushandi anofanira kuisa chikumbiro chechikonzero chekutanga mhosva yepamhosva nekuda kwekutyora kwakanyanya kwekodhi yebasa nemushandi. Mukuwedzera, mushandi anogona kukwereta kudare mudare. Panguva imwecheteyo, kana akakunda nyaya yacho, haazogamuchiri mubairo chete, asiwo mari yezvokudya kunonoka.

Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, mushandi wega wega anogona kusimamisa mabasa ake kusvikira kugamuchira mari yaanofanira. Izvo zvakakosha chete kuzivisa mushandi mukunyora. Kusiyanisa ndeyevanhu vanoshanda mumasangano anopa basa rinokosha kuvanhu, kana kuti vanoshumira zvinhu zvakanyanya kuipa. Iwe haugoni kumira basa panguva yehutano kana mutemo wehondo.

Zvisinei, vasati vashevedza kuti mushandirwi anotakura mutoro wekusabhadhara kwemari, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti inofanira kubhadharwa zvakadini maererano nemutemo, panguva iyo zvakakosha kuziva nguva yekuderera kwayo.

Bhuku Rebasa rinotaura kuti mubhadharo webasa unomanikidzirwa unoitwa panguva dzenguva yemwedzi, zvichida. Muchiitiko ichi, zuva rekubhadhara rinosarudzwa nebasa kana chibvumirano chakabatanidzwa, uyewo sangano remukati mukati. Kana nhamba dzakataridzwa dzichiratidza kusabhadhara kwemari, ipapo mushandirwi kana mumiririri wavo ane kodzero anotakura zvinhu, kutungamirira kana mutoro. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, mushandirwi angave ari kupomerwa.

Imwe dambudziko rinowanzoitika munguva pfupi yapfuura nderekuti isiri kubhadhara mubhadharo kana uchidzingwa. Mutemo unosimbisa kuti kubhadhara kwese nguva yakashanda kunofanira kuitwa pazuva rekudzingwa kwebasa. Kana panguva iyoyo akanga asiri kubasa, saka kuverenga kunogona kuitwa nenhamba inotevera. Kana kusina kubhadhara mibairo mushure mokudzingwa kwebasa kunopedza hafu yemwedzi, haazorevi chikamu chakaenzana nechiyero chekuwana mari yezuva rega rekurumidza kunonoka, asiwo kugadziriswa kwemaitiro ekukuvara kwetsika. Kuwanda kwekubhadharwa munyaya iyi kunosimbiswa nesungano yemapato ose. Kana vasingagoni kubvumirana, kusiyana kwavo kunogadziriswa nedare.

Kana munhu asingakwanisi kuzvimiririra kuwana mubayiro wake, anogona kushanda kune gweta rakagadziriswa gweta remabasa. Achaunganidza zvinyorwa zvose zvinodiwa uye mumatare achakurumidza kumiririra zvinodiwa nevatengi vake.