Husband Drinks - zvokuita?

"Chii kuita kana murume wako anwe?" - mubvunzo wakabvunzwa mamiriyoni evakadzi uye vasingawanzotauri kuwana mhinduro yacho. Zvichakadai, nhamo udhakwa ndechokuti chirwere kwete chete anonwa pachake, asi yake zvose zvakatipoteredza. Kana murume ari kunwa, mumwe mukadzi kazhinji anotora basa muponesi; iye anoedza kudzidzisa murume uye kukumbira hana yake, kuti aponese uye ringakweva ezvinhu akaoma siyana, kufukidza uye kupembedza vakuru vavo. Kana izvi hazvirevi kubatsira, zvinoitika nokutyisidzirwa, achivanza mari kicks shamwari, anovimbisa kuti pakudimurisa kurambana. Asi murume wake achinwa sakare. Panguva ino mukadzi kukwezverwa dambudziko zvokuti zvinoita chirwere kuti vanachiremba vanodana Codependency. Kutambura Codependency, vanhu vanokanganwa pamusoro pachavo, zvavanoda, zvavanofarira, utano, vana. Zvose akaisa rimwe dambudziko: pakurwisa chidhakwa. Huru kukanganisa nzira iyi kuti mukadzi ari kuedza kusvika murume wake kuziva doro, vasingambozivi kuti udhakwa chiri chirwere - izvo zvinoda chete vanokwanisa kurapwa, uyewo mamwe zvirwere zvose. Hapana mubvunzo ungatondinyengetedza munhu kukosora kwete, kana akanga bronchitis? Muchiitiko chino, ungazviti chiremba uye murwere kuva vaenzi nachiremba ake. Mabatirwo udhakwa - ndiko zvakaitika chiremba - chiremba wepfungwa. Saka chinhu chokutanga kuita kana murume anonwa: anoreva nyanzvi kuti mazano. Zvino chiremba ichatsanangura kuti huru zvimiso kurapa udhakwa ndiyo kuchiva chidhakwa kubvisa muropa ichi. Uyu chikuru uye zvakakodzera mamiriro ezvinhu kuti abudirire Zvinotambudza kurwara sezvo doro kuyanzva. Itirawo asipo kana muchivande kunwa hazviiti. Saka pedyo anofanira kushanda kukurudzira nokumwa tsvaka simba pfungwa, unogona kumumanikidza kurega doro. Nokuti mumwe, zvinogona kuva basa uye basa, zvinhu zvakanaka, mumwe - mhuri nevana, nokuti wechitatu - utano. Help kuwana kurudziro iyi anogona nyanzvi - psychotherapist. Chinhu chikuru - kuti awane mvumo kubva kunwa kushanyira chiremba wepfungwa uye kutanga kurapwa. Zvisinei, tinofanira kuyeuka kuti kurapa udhakwa - iri refu uye kunzwisisa mutoo, yaida yakawanda kutsungirira uye mwoyo murefu, vose murwere wake boka racho. Narcologist ibasa misoro kurapwa kuti zvinosanganisira kushandisa zvinodhaka kunodiwa uye psychotherapy. Inoda kubatsirwa chiremba uye mhuri nokunwa: Chokutanga, zvichabatsira kugadzirisa zvakarurama maitiro, uye chepiri kuti kubata Codependency.

Hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti vakuru vanotambura vachinwa vana vavo, vanogona kuva co-kuzvimiririra. Muchiitiko ichi vanodawo kwepfungwa kana psychotherapist. Muchidimbu, unofanira kubata alkogolizmomo zvakaoma uye nguva dzose tichibatsirwa unyanzvi.

Kana ichi haina kuitwa, dambudziko ratowedzera. Zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti kutambura chidhakwa anosognosia, kana kushaya yakaoma kunyatsoongorora pachake. Saka, kunyange yechipiri kana yechitatu padanho udhakwa, unogona kuramba kuvapo matambudziko uye kuvimbisa hama kuti aikwanisa sunga kana kunwa. Asi The anoshanda obscheaniya izvi zvinongova mashoko, nokuti kudzora maitiro avo pasina kutambura doro nedoro kvadifitsirovannoy rubatsiro ochet zvakaoma.