Chii chinonzi kuzvikudza? Kukosha uye anoreva zvakafanana

Kune zvekare mashoko, kuti haisi yechinyakare, asi achiri zvichiita vamwe zvinetso vanhu. kana munhu kupindura mubvunzo pamusoro chii nokuzvikudza? Pamwe kamwe, asi chii kana kwete? Zvakakodzera zvakanaka parse uhwu kwevanhu, kwete chete pakutaura, asi mupfungwa.

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Kana uine duramazwi yaswedera, unogona nyore kuwana kubva zvinoreva shoko. Somuenzaniso, kana ukatsvaka "mbambo" mhando yomunhu mumwe aiti zvinotevera:

• swagger ichi.
• Kuzvikudza ichi.
• Kuzvikudza ichi.

Saka, pakupindura mubvunzo pamusoro nokuzvikudza chii, isu kuuraya shiri mbiri nedombo rimwe, kune rumwe rutivi, anojekesa zvinorehwa ndiedze pfungwa, uye Ukuwo, kundorondedzera anoreva zvakafanana. The dambudziko iri kuti zvose pamusoro chete: ivo kutsiva vanofanira kupindura.

Kunyatsotsanangura unhu: snobby, vanozvikudza uye vanozvikudza

Zvichida anoshamisa nzeve kuti murume ano zvinoita chipauro rokutanga musoro wenyaya muchikamu. Chikonzero ndechokuti nyore kuisa: zviri Kashoma kushandiswa nhasi. Sezvo inogona vakaonga, snobby - ndirwo anozvidza vanhu pasi, kana zviri zvakasiyana mavambo - mutorwa.

munhu uyu haasi chiyero kuzvikudza. Pasina mutauro, pane pfungwa mbiri: "kuzvikudza" uye "kuzvikudza". Zvinoita zvakafanana, asi zvakasiyana masangano. Kuzvikudza kunofanira kuva nomumwe - kwakafanana nokuzviremekedza, asi kuti musungwa kuzvikudza nani kwete kuwa. Zvachinja murume mugomba egotist, anofunga kuti pane chete chokwadi chake, tsika dzayo chete, uye vamwe vanhu vose, kuti akariisa zvinyoronyoro, ndezvenhema. Kana tichinzwisisa yezvakaita chipauro "snobby" tinoziva kuti mhinduro yomubvunzo wokuti chii chinorehwa "hubris".

Vanozvitutumadza - a munyoro votadza snobby Zvisinei, Chokwadi, kana kufungwa anoreva zvakafanana, ipapo mubvunzo mashoko - nyaya kuravira.

Vanozvitutumadza vanhu zvinoshandawo vanhu pasina kuremekedza. Asi vanozvikudza vanhu kubereka zvinosemesa pfungwa, siya nemanzwiro kusemeswa. Kuzvikudza, izvo kazhinji kutambura daffodils (narcissistic vanhu), iri akatamisira nyore.

Muverengi vakasununguka kuisa dzokuAustralia, ipapo vanhu vose vakasununguka zvachose. Language kunoda kusanzwisisana, kududzira, uye zvakanaka. Kana munhu akakanganwa, isu kupinda mumba musimboti mubvunzo kuti kuzvikudza kwakadaro.

Hollywood villains uye V. V. Nabokov

Ndakacherechedza kuti anenge ose mabhii mafirimu American zvakaipa hakusi akangwara zvokuti, asi vanozvikudza, vanozvikudza uye vanozvikudza, mune mamwe mazwi, vanozvikudza. Quick-witted muverengi achawana nyore pano kwainge. Asi hapana mitemo pasina kunze. Dzimwe nguva zvechokwadi chipo munhu asingagoni, nokuti chero zvikonzero, kuramba kuzvininipisa. Somuenzaniso, imwe mitauro miviri munyori V. V. Nabokov akanga vanamanyawi.

Kana kushandisa gudziramukanwa, zvinofungidzirwa kuti munyika mune munyori chakanaka mumwe chete, fembera ndiani? Uye pano zvakaoma kutaura kushaya njere. Zviitiko dzimwe nguva kuitika. Yeuka kuti anosiyiwa chete richasimbiswa mutemo. Muverengi akagadzirira kupindura mubvunzo chii nokuzvikudza pachavo.