Kuremara: kana shamwari iri mumatambudziko ...

Iyi mirayiridzo shoma "yevamwe" ndakasarudza kunyora maererano neshoko redu: chikwata changu chakagamuchira hurema - chirwere chakanyanya chepamuviri - uye iye zvino ari kushingaira pakuita kwake. Iro network yakarangarira nyaya yehukama nehama zvakakwana zvakakwana, asi shamwari, kazhinji dzisiri pasi pevanhu vashoma, dzakapfuura zvishoma.

Pane chirevo chekutanga

Pakutanga ndinoda kuonga vose avo vasina kuramba vari munzira apo shamwari yake yakava mumamiriro asingazivikanwi uye anotyisa iye pachake. Iwe hauzivi kuti zvakadini kutsigira kwako mazwi kunoreva munhu anotambudzika. Uye itai kuti inoratidzika kwauri kuti dzimwe nguva iwe hauna kukwanira shamwari yako - hazvisi kudaro! Kutarisa kwako uye kutarisirwa kwakakodzera kunobatsira munhu kunzwa kuti unodiwa pasinei nokuti chii. Asi kuti uite zvose zvinokonzera kusagadzikana uye kusagadzikana mukukurukurirana kwako, zvakakosha kufunga nezvemashure akatevera. Saka, ngatitange ...

Kutanga kwehupenyu hutsva

Iwe wangoona kuti munhu wepedyo akakuvadzwa zvakakomba, vanachiremba vanobva pamashoko mashomanana kubva pane zvakatevedzana: "Yakagadzikana, kutonhora kuri-uye-zvakadaro." Kutya uye kusava nechokwadi. Kana shamwari yako yakatamiswa kubva muchipatara chikuru, uye iwe une mukana wekumushanyira, yeuka: hapana misodzi (kunyanya pamusoro pevasikana), kuchema chiso chekutaura. Yeuka, mumwe anochema murume kamwe chete, pavanomuisa mubhokisi, uye iwe uri nerombo: shamwari yako iri mupenyu. Pakutanga edza kugadzira mamwe mashoko pamusoro pekutambudzika, pamusoro pezvinetso zvinogona kuitika, pamusoro pekurapa kunovuya. Vanachiremba vanodedzererwa, vanowanzoshaya mumuviri kutaurira murwere, kumunyaradza uye kuisa zvinhu zvose zvakarongeka, saka zvingava zvakanaka kudai iwe ndiwe wakataurira munhu wacho mhosva yacho. Zvichida, chiremba anoenda haazokupei ruzivo rwakakwana pamusoro pemamiriro ehu shamwari yako, uye zvingava zvakanaka kana iwe ukwanisa kubvunzana nemumwe munhu ane kodzero mundima iyi. Zvakakoshawo kuziva izvo chaizvo zvaunoda kuziva: kazhinji kuburikidza nekusaziva tinoda mhinduro kumibvunzo kubva kune avo vasingakwanisi kuvapa. Semuenzaniso, paunobvunza mibvunzo kune neurosurgeon, munhu angapora here kubva pakunetseka uku uye chii chichava nguva yekudzorera. Asi, tarisai, isu tinowanzowana zvakajeka mhinduro dzisina kunaka dzatinotarisira kuti dzinonzwisisika: mahara neurosurgeons haabatsiri nemamiriro ekugadzirisa. Mushure mokunge mawana ruzivo rwekudikanwa, edza kunakidza kuendesa iyo kune shamwari yako, musingatauri muzvinyorwa, muchinyanya kufunga nezvekuti "kune nguva dzose tariro."

Apo takava nematambudziko, uye Andireya mushure mokunge aona chirwere ichi chaiva nekuvhiyiwa kwekudzikisa denderedzwa remusana wechipfupa nekutangira kuongororwa kwe "kukanganiswa kwakakwana kwemutsara wepelinha kumwero weT3, T4," chiremba anovhiya akamuudza kuti aisazombokwanisa kufamba. Nyanzvi yezvechirwere chezvemhepo yakawanda yakakanda mutsara uyu: "Iwe une nhanho, isu tiri zvikamu zvakasiyana-siyana zvekuona," uyo anogara muimba huru yekuchengetedza, zvakare, haana kumira shure, achireva kuti munhu akanga achangobva kutambudzika zvakanyanya "kuzviroverera pachake", tk. Iye "haana tariro". Zvakanga zvakakodzera kuedza kukanganisa Andrei kubva pane izvi. Uye iyi haisi nyaya yakasarura.

Papera mwedzi iwe unomhanya marathons!

Saka, nguva yakaoma yakapfuura, imwe nguva yapfuura, uye ikozvino inova pachena kuti kukurumidza kuporeswa kuri kuregererwa sei kubva pakurwadziwa. Kazhinji kuti vafare shamwari yavo, vanhu vanotanga kuudza nhau nezvevamwe shamwari kana vanozivana neshamwari ivo, mushure mekufanana (vanofunga) kukuvadzwa kwakadzokorora hutano hwavo munguva yakanyorwa. Zvinoratidzika kuti izvi zvinofanira kutsigira uye kukurudzira tariro, asi ... Nzira yose yakapoteredza. Zvingangodaro, kana chirwere kana kukuvadza hakusi nyore, munhu achakurumidza kuziva nezvazvo, uye kuedza kwakadaro kufara kunongoridza chete kunyemwerera kusuruvara uye kukura kutsamwa. Hongu, shamwari yako, zvichida kufara kune uyo akanga ane ruzivo, uye zvino anouya pfungwa dzinosuruvara dzemamiriro ake chaiwo. Zviri nani kuwana munhu ane hutano hwakafanana, hunofadza uye hune chinangwa, mumwe munhu anogona kukwereta nekushingaira kwake uye anokurudzira kuvimba kuti kunyange nematambudziko akadaro mumwe anogona kubudirira kurarama uye ave "nhengo yakakodzera yevanhu." Nokudaro, zviri nani kusiya nyaya pamusoro pe "Vasya kubva kumusuo wakatarisana, wakadzorerwa mumazuva matatu" naye.

Zvinoshamisa kuti isu tinofarira izvi kakawanda uye takaona chimwe chinhu chakadai:

- Ndine munhu wandizivana uyo, mushure mekuvhuvhuta kwemutsipa kwemwedzi 3-4, akatanga kufamba, uye mushure mokunge 7 - atomhanya!

- Huru, asi chii chinonzi chiyero uye uwandu hwekuparara kumutsipa wepelinha?

- Oo, ini handizivi zvekunzwisisa kwakadaro ...

Mira, ini ndichakubatsira.

Uchitarisa kuti shamwari yako inotambudza sei kutora t-shati, tauyisa mukombe mumuromo make, iwe une chido chekuda kumubatsira. "Ipai, ini ndichaita, nekukurumidza" - kazhinji ichi ndicho chivi chehama dzeanotambudzwa, asi izvi ndizvo zvakare kune shamwari. Panzvimbo yekuonga nokuda kwekubatsira kwakaitwa, shamwari yako pane chimwe chikonzero chinogumbura, uye iwe unogona kunge usingafungi kuti shamwari haina kukoshesa kutsigirwa. Dzinga pfungwa idzi. Izvozvi, iwe unoshandura "kusagadzikana".

Chokutanga, kuti munhu mune ramangwana anogona kuita pasina rubatsiro rwokunze munyaya dzekuzvipira, anofanira kuita zvose pachake pese pazvinogoneka. Hungu, rega zvishoma nezvishoma, urega hafu yemaspire kubva padare iwe pachako, kana kupfeka kweawa, asi gare gare nekuda kwekudzidziswa kwakadaro, munhu anogona kukurumidza kudzokera nenzira yakajairika yehupenyu, achirega kusarirwa kwehama, izvo zvichange pasina mubvunzo kuti dzinovadzivisa ivo uye hupenyu hwavo . Yeuka zvishoma nezvekuti ungadzidzisa sei unyanzvi hwekuzvimiririra vana vaduku: kana ukaita zvose nokuda kwewe mwana wako, hauzombokwanisi kudzidza chero chinhu.

Chechipiri, kudada kunoitawo basa pano, kunyanya kana rinouya kune munhu akakuvadzwa. Fungidzira kuti mwedzi miviri yakapfuura yakanga iri munhu akazvimiririra akazvimiririra aive ane zvirongwa, zvido zvaive rubatsiro kuvabereki vake nemhuri, uye iyezvino anoda kutarisirwa semakore maviri. Kubatsirwa kwako kwekukurumidza kunongokuyeuchidza zvakare zvakare kumamiriro ake ezvinhu.

Saka mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, uchiona kuti shamwari yako haigoni kurarama nayo pachake, zvinongobvunzisisa kuti: "Iwe unoda rubatsiro, kana iwe uchagadzirisa iwe pachako?" Kana zvisina kudaro, hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kuti munhu azvienzanise nechokwadi chokuti zvishoma, vanomhanyira kwaari nerubatsiro, uye vakanyarara zvokuti anorega kuedza kuita kunyange zvaakaita.

Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, ndinobva ndangorangarira mumwe mufananidzo kubva muAmerican firimu repepanhau raive mune simba guru uye rakasviba zvokuti nguva imwe neimwe yaakakumbira mudzimai wake kuti azarure bhodhoro reCoca-Cola kwaari. Asingatauri zvimwe zvinhu zvishoma izvo iye pachake aikwanisa kuita. Usimbe hunouraya!

Vanachiremba vanoti chii, zvii zvinotarisirwa?

Chimwe chinyorwa uye kwete mubvunzo unonyadzisa. Kutanga, vanachiremba vanogara mumatambudziko akaoma, uye kwete chete, vanokonzera zvinotyisa zvinogoneka. Uye vanogona kunzwisiswa. Uye tenda ini, shamwari yako haifaniri kufara kukuzivisa iwe izvo chiremba anofanotaura. Kunyanya kuti vanachiremba ivo pachavo havawanzoziva kuti zviyero zvakadini mushure mokutambudzwa kwemuviri wake murwere anogona kudzoka, nokuti Maitiro akazara uye kutsungirira kune zvakakosha zvikuru.

Saka chaizvoizvo, apo ini ndakabvunzwa mubvunzo we sacramental, ndine zvingarudzo zviviri zvekupindura, zvichienderana nemigumisiro yandinoda kuita kumubvunzi. Izvi zvinenge zvatozara nekunyunyuta: "Nekukuvara kwakadaro, huporofita hahupi hupi, vanachiremba havatauri chinhu" - kana kuti kana iwe uchida kukurumidza kubuda: "Ivo vakati pakutanga kuti havasimuke nekukuvadzwa kwakadaro!" Uye ndeyvenyeredzi inecdote inorangarirwa zvakare: "Chiremba akati kune morgue, izvo zvinoreva, kune morgue!"

Iwe unofanirwa kuteerera vanachiremba!

Edza kusabvisa kubva kuzwi rechirevo izwi iri zvachose. Nokuti shamwari yako inenge ichinzwa ichikwereta kune vose varipo: kuvabereki avo, panzvimbo yekuzorora, vanomutarisira semwana; Mudzimai kana musikana, tk. Haikwanisi kuva rubatsiro rwechokwadi rwechokwadi; Vana, shamwari, vanachiremba, mukoti, mukuru, vashandi pamwe chete. Nhamba yacho inowedzera kusvika kune imwe. Uye iwe newe "iwe unofanira". Nditendei, iye anoziva. Uye usapfuurire nezvinorambidzwa, kana pasina mirayiridzo yakananga kubva kuna chiremba, tumira mune zvokudya zvinonaka.

Muamai vaAndrei - mukadzi akanaka, asi zvinoitika, kinks tsvimbo. Panzvimbo pokungodya zvokudya zvisingabatanidzi nyama yakasvibirira kana zvimwe zvakanyanyisa zvakadai, ration inosanganisira ndiro yehutonda: yakabikwa mutsva yehuchi itsva pasina peel, phiri pamvura uye zvose zviri mumweya iwoyo. Iwe unotofanira kupinda muchivande, uchiisa pangozi kutsamwa.

Pane hunobudirira here?

Mumwe mubvunzo we sacramental, uyo unowanzogamuchira kugamuchira kusina kunaka, izvo zvinovhiringidza munhu wose. Saka sei uchimubvunza, iwe unobvunza? Kana munhu achipemberera kunatsiridza, usazvidya mwoyo, ruzivo urwu haruzopfuura iwe, ruchabudiswa mushure mokukwazisa, pamwe kana kuderedza mutsara. Uyezve, kazhinji munhu haakwanisi kucherechedza kuchinja kwose kunoitwa naye, hazvirevi chokwadi kuti nyaya yacho haifambi kubva pakati pekufa.

Kutendeseka, ndinogara ndichirasika apo vanhu vanondibvunza chimwe chinhu chakadai, nokuti ini handizivi kuti ndechipi chekuvandudza kuri kutaura munhu. Akashamisika kana munhu aigona kufamba netsoka dzake kana kuti ane fevha here? Nokudaro, nepo mhinduro uye yakajeka mhinduro: "Hongu, zviri nani kupinda mune zvakanyanya kutarisira!"

Ndine waunoziva chiremba, mumudane ...

Izvo zvinonakidza uye zvinorumbidzwa izvo munhu anoda kugovana zvakakosha, sezvazvinoratidzika kwaari, shamwari. Asi kazhinji haazvizivi zvakadai semufananidzi uye unyanzvi hweyanyanzvi hwakakurudzirwa, kazhinji, kana iwe uchingopinda mukunyengetedza kudana guru, nhaurirano inotevera inoenda:

- Zvakanaka masikati, Mr. N akakurudzira iwe, iwe ungabvunzurudza mubvunzo wakadai uye wakadaro here?

- Ndine urombo, asi ini ndiri proctologist, unofanirwa kuonana neurorosi.

Zvichida zvakanyanyisa, asi zvinoreva zvese zvinonzwisisika.

Kwandiri panguva yokutanga, ikozvino yakawanda kudarika, yakarasa masangano ekurapa maitiro, zvisinei kuti haafaniri kutanga pakutanga kwepfungwa dzomumumvuri. Kukotamira kumativi ose mushure kune mahwendefa pane nzvimbo mbiri ye vertebrae isingashandisi basa.

Uri kumusiya iye zvino?

Uyu mubvunzo wakaderera unoreva "chikamu chechipiri" chemunhu akagamuchira uremara, uye kazhinji anobva kune shamwari dzeanotambudzwa. Iwe unonzwisisa kuti ini ndinokurudzira kuti iwe usifukidze ... kure. Uye usazviwana. Kwete! Iwe unogona kunzwisisa kuti unoda kuderedza kushungurudzika kune shamwari yako, asi nyaya iyi haugadziri chinhu. Maiwe, zvinoitika kuti vanhu vanobva, kana sarudzo yakadaro inogadzirwa, haungatambudzi iyo, kana kwete - kuisa munhu muchinzvimbo chisina kunaka kana achifanira kuzviruramisa pasina chikonzero. Uyezve, hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kuti munhu "atume" shamwari yake mushure mekukuvara.

Zvandakatarisana nazvo zvakakwana. Shamwari dzangu kunyange zvazvo vakandisvitsa kumagazini iyi, asi vakazviita zvakanyatsonaka uye zvakanyanyisa, vachitarisa zvandakaita, vachigadzirira kuti vobva vadzoka. Asi vazive vaAndrey vakapfuura zvose zvandakatarisira, kunyanya vakadzikadzi. Ndakapinda mune pfungwa yeupenzi kuti vakanga vakamirira kumirira kuti vatore nzvimbo yangu. Uyu mubvunzo unowanzoteverwa mushure me "hello, ndiri shamwari yaAndrew."

Panzvimbo yeshoko

Zvechokwadi, hukama hwevanhu hwakaoma uye pasina hutori hunochinja muupenyu, zvinowanzooma kuti isu tinyatsonzwisisa kunyange shamwari yepedyo, kuzviisa panzvimbo yake. Asi kana zvose zvichitendeuka, chimwe chinhu chiduku chamusingafungi kare chingakonzera kukakavara kukuru. Ndakaunza zvishoma chete zvakajeka uye zvakajairika zvikanganiso zvingaitika mukubata nemunhu akakurumidza kuparadza utano hwake. Vanhu vakadaro vanogona kutsamwa, kunyange kutsamwa, asi usafunga kuti havakoshe kutarisira kwako uye kutsigira kwako. Izvi zvinowanzowanzoitika kwenguva pfupi, kuitika kune dambudziko guru. Kungovapo, munhu anofanira kunzwa kuti, pasinei nezvose, anoda mumwe munhu.