Izwi rokuti "kushamwaridzana" rinorevei? Icho chimiro cheunhu kana chirwere chepfungwa here?

Kusiyana nevamwe - zvakanaka here kana zvakaipa? Mumwe munhu anogona kutaura kuti izvi zvinotsanangura munhu semunhu akazvimiririra. Uye mumwe achati iwe haugoni kuve wakasiyana. Izvozvi, zvose zviri zviviri: munhu haasi nguva dzose akasiyana nevamwe kune zviri nani, uye munhu akadaro anopiwa epithet "kushamwaridzana". Izvi zvinoreva munhu anopesana nemitemo nemitemo yevanhu. Izvi zvichakurukurwa mubhuku.

Tsanangudzo

Zvinorehwa neshoko rokuti "kushamwaridzana" kune zvimwe zvakasiyana. Kana tikashandura chaiyo kubva mumutauro wechiGiriki, tinowana tsanangudzo inotevera: munhu asina hanya kuvanhu, haatore matanho muhupenyu hwevanhu, ndiko kuti, munhu wevanhu vasingadikanwi. Uyewo, shoko rokuti "kushamwaridzana" rinoreva maitiro anopesana nemitemo nemitemo inogamuchirwa munharaunda.

Ichokwadi, iyi pfungwa ine tsanangudzo mbiri dzakasiyana. Kune rumwe rutivi, kusashamwaridzana munhu anenge achiita zvinopesana nemitemo yakagadziriswa, asi kune rumwe rutivi ndeyeiye asingadi kufambidzana nesangano. Kana iye ane chikonzero, zvino chinonyanya kurongerwa pane zviito zvisina.

Izwi iri rinoshandiswa sei?

Asocial izwi rinowanikwa muupenyu hwezuva nezuva muzana remakore rechimakumi maviri. Pakutanga, yakashandiswa mumashoko ayo emitemo, zvichireva neshoko iri vanhu vose vasina basa, kureva, chikoro chepasi. Munguva yeHondo Yenyika Yechipiri, mumisasa yeTatu Reich, nhengo dzezvematongerwe enyika dzaipfeka zviratidzo zvakafanana sevanhu vakaora mwoyo mupfungwa.

Pamusoro pezvakanaka, humwe hutano hunofungidzirwa mune dzidziso dzechitendero. Dzimwe tsika dzomusarasita dzinokurudzira hukama hwevanhu, dzichitenda kuti munhu ari kure nemasangano, ari pedyo naMwari.

Vanhu vezvematongerwe enyika vanogona kutumidzwa kuti introverts, vanhu vasingatori nzvimbo dzakasarudzwa munzanga. Asi chimiro chekunyanya kukwana chinonzi schizophrenia, iyo iyo inokwanisa kusakwanisa kunzwisa tsitsi uye kugadzirisa kusangana nevamwe vanhu chiratidzo.

Mumwe munhu

Kufambira mberi kubva pane zvose zviri pamusoro apa, mubvunzo wechisikigo unomuka: chii ichocho, unhu husina hanya nevamwe?

Saka, unhu husina kufanana. Tsanangudzo yezwi iri ichange iine: maonero ehutano hwepamweya mune zvepfungwa inoreva munhu ane pfungwa dzakasvibiswa (isina kusimbiswa kana kuti asiripo), iyo inoshanda nemitemo yakadzika uye haina kuratidza kufarira kuzviita.

Vanhu vakadaro zviri nyore kudzidza nemafambiro avo. Vanorwadza uye vanonyatsokwanisa kupindura kumanzwiro okusagutsikana kwavo uye nguva dzose vanotsvaka kutsvaga kubvisa zvinhu kana mamiriro ezvinhu anounetsa kusagadzikana. Vane masimba, vanofarira "kupfeka masikisi", vanonyengera. Asi kazhinji zvakakwana zvakanzwisiswa nevanhu vakangwara uye vanofadza. Vanhu vezvehutano vanogona kuwana hukama nevamwe kune zvavanofarira, asi havazivi kuratidza tsitsi uye kutarisira.

Maitiro

Asocial mumwe. Hazvina kufanana neizvi: kubva pane tsika yekubatanidza shoelaces kusvika pakuona kwechokwadi, chii chiripo kutaura pamusoro pekuita? Sezvatotaurwa, hutsika iyi yakasiyana nemitemo nemitemo inogamuchirwa munzanga. Zvichienderana nezvakaitwa nemutsvakurudzi, tsika dzisina kufanana dzichaonekwa sechiito chinopesana. Semuenzaniso, kana iwe ukaongorora nzira yekugadzirisa, ipapo mararaptive unhu hunogona kuonekwa sehutsika husina kunaka.

Nokudaro, pfungwa ye "mafungiro asina kufanana" tsanangudzo ichaita zvinotevera:

• Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvekusazvibata, izvo zvinokonzera kukanganisa kwevanhu. Iyi maitiro haisi chinangwa chehukama hwemagariro evanhu, asi ine mabasa akawanda akasiyana-siyana: kubva mukusava nekunetseka kwepfungwa.

Hasi nguva dzose hukama hwehutano hwevanhu hunogona kuonekwa sehuipi hwakanaka, kune uchapupu hwokuti vanhu vemarudzi akasiyana-siyana vanounza zvakawanda zvitsva mukusimudzirwa kwevanhu. Kunyangwe izvi zviri kungosiyana nemitemo. Mukuwedzera, maitiro asina kufanana nehutano hwemadzinza evanhu haafaniri kuve akavhiringidzika, sezvo iyo yekupedzisira inobatanidza nehupombwe, zvisiri pamutemo uye zvounzenza. Unhu hwehutano hunobva mukudzivirirwa kwevamwe vanhu uye kusakwanisa kuvaka ukama navo, izvo, chaizvoizvo, zvinoguma nehutano hwepfungwa.

Zvinyorwa zvitsva

Kazhinji kudzivirirwa kwehutsika husina kufanana kunoitwa mumitambo kana masangano ezvidzidzo. Nzira dzaro dzepamusoro dzinotarisirwa kubatsira kusimbisa zvakakosha zvakakosha, kushandura iyo isati yashandurwa kukosha kwehurongwa uye, zvechokwadi, kukurudzira mararamiro akanaka. Matanho ekudzivirira anogona kuitika nenzira yezvidzidzo, mitambo kana kuedza.

Nenzira yakawanda, kudzivirira kunogoverwa kuva mhando dzakasiyana, zvichienderana nekuoma kwekupotsa:

1. Primary. Zviito zvose zvinotarisirwa kubvisa zvikonzero izvo zvakakonzera kubuda kwehutsika hwehutsika uye, kuramba kure nezvinhu izvi, kugadzirisa kukanganiswa kwemunhu kune zvinokonzera.
2. Secondary. Izvi zvinosanganisira basa neboka rezvipingamupinyi, kureva, nemunhu ane chirwere chinonzi neuropsychiatric, kana avo vane chido chekuzvibata, asi zvisati zvaonekwa.
3. Tertiary. Kurudzira kupindira kwechiremba nekuwedzera kurapwa.

Summing up

Asocial mumwe. Iye anozivikanwa nokuda kwehukama hwake, kutengesa, kusagadzikana mupfungwa uye chido chekugara ari oga naiye pachake. Vanhu vezvematongerwo enyika vanoda kugara kure nevanhu. Chii chakagumbura kushingaira kwakadaro? Nzira isina kururama yehutsika, mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma kana kuti nyore kusagamuchirwa kwechikamu chikuru chemitemo nemitemo? Hapana mhinduro yechokwadi kumubvunzo uyu. Pashure pezvose, kune rumwe rutivi, unhu husingadikanwi hunogona kuva nengozi uye mupfungwa dzisina kukodzera, asi kune imwe - inogona kuva munhuwo zvake anoda kuchinja nyika ino kuti ave nani, uye haadi kurega kutaura, asina nguva yakakwana.