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Izwi harisi shiri duku kana kuti kudzidza sei kupika nemumwe wako

Pane munhu asina kunzwa here kutaura: "Pakutanga kwaive neShoko"? Izwi iri, maererano naJohane, rakange rine mavara matatu - Mwari. Asi munhu wemazuva ano ane shoko remashoko matatu haabatanidzi nemutemo waMwari, asi nemutauro unonyadzisa. Mat, mune mamwe mazwi.

Mashoko asingatenderwi nemashoko haabvumirwi kushandiswa muzvinyorwa zvemashoko, mashizha makuru uye nzvimbo dzevanhu. Muhupenyu hwehupenyu, kushandiswa kwemashoko asingasvikikiwo haagamuchirwi, sezvo mashoko aya ane chinonyadzisa chinoreva uye anokonzera kunyomba kwakakomba kune munhu ane mhosva yekupiwa mhosva. Saka kana iwe uchiona zvakaoma kunzwisisa uye kugamuchira mitemo yezvemagariro evanhu, ipapo kumubvunzo: "Sei iwe usingakwanisi kupika nemumwe wako?" - iwe unogona kupa mhinduro inotevera: "Kuti urege kurangwa nokuda kwechiito chisina kutenderwa."

Iyo etymology yemashoko anonyadzisa ane zvinyorwa zvakawanda. Maererano nerimwe remashoko asinganyanyi kusakadza - hapana rimwe kunze kwemazwi emashiripiti emagetsi ekare. Zvichida, zviri chaizvoizvo. Zvisinei, kana iwe usati uri shaman kana muroyi anoita tsika, saka iwe unofanira kufunga nezvekuzvidzivirira iwe pachako kupika kusina kunaka. Sei vanhu vachishandisa mazwi asingatauriki? Chaizvoizvo, nerubatsiro rwechirwere vanotaura manzwiro avo zvinotsanangura, vachiratidza kushungurudzika kwemazwi avo. Uye vaduku vaduku vetsvina vachishandisa mazwi e "vanhu vakuru", edza kuratidza kuti havasisiri vana. Vose vaviri havana kukodzera kune munhu akachenjera. Nokudaro, kana kutaura kwako kuchibvisa shoko rinonyadzisa-mararamiro, edza kushandisa mazano ekudzivisa kupika kusvibiswa.

Kutanga iwe unoda kuziva kuti kushandiswa kwemashoko anonyadzisa (uye maererano neimwe shanduro yemuti - hausi kutotambudza, asi kutuka kuri kutumirwa), kunokanganisa chaizvo. Izwi iri zvinhu, uye zvakaipa zvaunotumira kuburikidza nemutauro wakaipa zvichadzoka kwauri semunhu anowedzera.

Saka:

Kudzidza nzira yekupika nemumwe wako: nzira yekutanga. Kana iwe kupika kunonyadzisa kunoreva kubvisa kushungurudzika mupfungwa kana kuti kugadzirisa simba rakawanda rakawanda, saka zvinhu zvose zvakajeka - edza kusava nekutya, uye mumatambudziko asingadzivisiki kudzora kutaura kwako, kushandura mashoko anonyadzisa ari pedyo nemutinhi, asi kwete mumwe. Chimiro chinonyangadza ndechokuti "simba reEgipita", iro rinodikamwa nemhare yeimwe yemhuri dzemashure. Kana kuti "pipets" - shoko, rinozivikanwa nevechidiki mutsva nezvehupenyu hwevadzidzi. Asi mune zvakanakisisa zvinowanzodiwa kubvisa mazwi anosvibisa kutaura kwako.

Kudzidza nzira yekupika nemumwe wako: nzira yechipiri. Kamwe kushandiswa kwemashoko asina kujeka maererano nemitemo yevanhu ndeyekukanganisa, ipapo chirango (mumuviri kana mutsika) chinofanira kutevera. Somuenzaniso, nokuda kweshoko rinonyangadza rinobuda, unogona kuzvipa pfupa kana kuvhara. Kana kuisa bhanhire rakasununguka, uye mushure mekunge rimwe nerimwe ratoti, rudonhedze uye wozobvumira kurega, kuuraya. Nokufamba kwenguva, mupfungwa, kutaura mazwi anonyadzisa achabatanidzwa nekunzwa kunorwadza. Sechirango chetsika, kushandiswa kwemwe mafungiro kune mumwe kunoshandiswa. Ikozvino, apo iwe unonyatsoda kupika, miromo inotambanudzwa mumusikana wakafara. Iyi nzira ine mazano maviri: pane rumwe rutivi, munhu anonzwa asinganzwisisiki kumeso kusina maturo uye kusina kukodzera, uye kune umwe unodzidza kushandura manzwiro.

Nzira yekudzidza kuti usapika pawakaroorana: nzira yechitatu. Kuti huseve hwako hunyangarika kubva mumashoko ako, iwe unofanirwa kusabvisa kubva mudenderedzwa revanhu vanoshandisa mufananidzo we "shoemaker doro". Zvinyorwa zvese, tanga kukurukura nevaya vasingakurudzirisi kushandiswa kwematehwe, uye pakupedzisira ichazonyangarika kubva mumutauro wako. Yeuka, chero nzira ipi yakanaka apo iwe unoda chaizvo kubvisa mutauro wakaipa.

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