Civil Marriage: zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira

Nhasi munyika yedu zvakajairika chaizvo mhando co-kuvapo varume nevakadzi ava nomumiririri wehurumende, kuti inzira kurarama pamwe chete, kurima, zvichireva kuberekana, nezvimwewo, kuti hazvirevi pamutemo kunyoresa hwevanhu vakaroorana. About zvikonzero vehurumende muchato akava akakurumbira, tinogona kutaura kwenguva refu - zviri kurasikirwa zvetsika muchato, izvo yakatarwa mamiriro somumwe huru nomutemo zvinobatanidzwa kuvapo kwevanhu, unoriumba kukosha mupfungwa vagari, uye zvakarurama kudhura nzira pacharo, uye kazhinji unhinhi vanhu kusungwa nechinhu mitoro. Zvechokwadi, zvikonzero nei vanhu vanosarudza vehurumende muchato yakawanda, asi edza kunzwisisa chii chinoita nomumiririri wehurumende zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira nechimwe nhengo mubatanidzwa akadaro. In wehurumende muchato vateveri zhinji, asi hapana zvishoma kupfuura zamu vavengi, saka kunzwisisa chii zvakanakira nekuipira nhengo imwe neimwe anogamuchira mhuri pachangu kunokosha zvikuru kuti varege kukanganisa.

Zvakanakira vehurumende muchato dzinowanzosanganisira mukana wokudzidza mumwe nani, saka kutaura "ajairire" vanhu kuti vapinde mariri. Zviri kucherechedza mutengo kuti yakadaro mukana anotibatsira zhinji kunzwisisa pachavo uye kunzwisisa sei akasununguka vachagara pamwe chete vakasarudzwa naye, asi muchiitiko chino, pane mamiriro ezvinhu angamuka kana zvishoma dambudziko kuti hazvo simuka vakatsunga nemazvo kubva nemaonero tsika ukama hwemhuri uye Ndezvemhuri chete mugumisiro - kuparadzanisa.

Kunakisa rechipiri - kuchengetedza mari. Sezvazvakanyorwa zvinganzwika corny, asi nhasi mari inoita rakakura basa muupenyu upenyu uye mhuri hapana anosara. Zvechokwadi, chetsika muchato nzira kunoda zvekushandisa ravakwa guru, kukura iri kazhinji onerous kuti kupinda muwanano vanhu, kunyanya vechiduku. Mukuwedzera hapana chikonzero kupedza mari kupfeka chipfeko, vanhu vanogara cohabiting ukama, kazhinji kunzi ayo zvinobatsirawo zvokunyama chinoumba mukana 'kubiridzira "kuti hurumende. Somuenzaniso, vakadzi vazhinji zvikomborero vaida kuti vanaamai vasina kuroorwa, kunyange vaine vaikwanisa uye vanodiwa, kunyange zvazvo "unformed" murume.

Edza, iwe zvechokwadi unogona kuwana zvimwe zvakanaka zviri kushayikwa "muchato", asi achava nezvemuchato tsananguro pfupi chii nezvayakaipira yevagari muchato kazhinji kuva chipingamupinyi kuitwa chisarudzo pamusoro kupinda noukama hwakadaro:

- Legal kusachengeteka noukama uye, zvinhu zvatinoita coexistence;

- The Kushayikwa uzere pfungwa basa pakati vamwe kuti mumwe uye nokuda pamwechete vana;

- chokuita netsika zvinhu, kazhinji richiratidzwa nokuda kwokushayiwa pamutemo nokusimbisa muchato.

- The nokushaiwa uzere kunzwisisa chii mhuri nevana vanoberekwa nevabereki vasinganamati kuti zvakakodzera kusungirira fundo.

Chokwadi, pasinei pamusoro, mumwe munhu anozvisarudzira sei kuvaka upenyu hwake. Chinhu bedzi zvandinoda kutaura ichi ndicho chinhu sarudzo inofanira kuva peya pamwe chete, nokungwarira uye nokungwaririra. Chero ukama inofanira kuva wakasununguka kubva mupfungwa mukuona, uye kuita kudaro vanokwanisa kubatsira asi rudo uye nokunzwisisa, uye kuvapo chazezesa "iri kufa" iri pasipoti asina kutamba akadaro guru basa zvakare. vanhu chete zvechokwadi vanogona vanokoshesa uye vanoda vadiwa vavo vanokwanisa postorit simba mhuri, pasinei pfupi haina kunzi.