Zvikonzero nomwe matatu, kusiya asingachadiwi basa

The aramu kurira. Imi nyongoroka pasi pamubhedha uye kunzwa sokuti kongiri rakanyorwa inowira pamapfudzi enyu. Kunze hwindo - chiri zuva (mvura angadai nani). Pane mangwanani ushingi - kurwisa echirwere hanya.

Chikonzero hachisi chirwere, uye kwete mudambudziko. Imi chete havadi kuenda kubasa. Iwe kuzvimanikidzira umene kugeza, kupfeka, mudye, kunyange kuburikidza "Havadi" kupinda mumotokari (bhazi, pevhu) uye kuenda vaivengwa hofisi (dhipatimendi, rabhoritari) Nokuti zvakakodzera kurarama neimwe nzira.

Ngatisiyei dambudziko pathological vajairira. Uri munhu wose. Imi chete havadi basa rako, uye zvokuita, handizivi.

The mhedziso yakajeka - kusiyira zvose pakarepo kunotsvaka rimwe basa, apo uchakwanisa kuti vakaziva kuti rakanaka mubayiro, mabhosi vachaonga, uye pamwe chikwata - kunyange ungwaru.

Asi vanotyisa, o, sei anotyisa. Urovha. Kupi Ndinogona kuwana rimwe basa? Uye chii chandingaita? Uye anoda ini, ndine makore akawanda kudaro? Ko kana paine kunyange kuipa? miriyoni Mibvunzo. Uye hapana chinoratidza.

Uye imi makamira panguva yokuchinja - siya ndaitya kugara hapana masimba. A muperekedzi kare kuratidza kusafara kuti kuurayiwa sezvineiwo kushanda navo vari kutanga kudzivisa ndambosuruvara nokusingaperi navo. Uye iwe unogona kuwana tsigiro dzakawanda mukati mavo, kuti vanounganidzira uye kuti varove pasi kumhanya sezvo kuita.

Stop otdyshites. Zvipe kuzorora (kutora nguva kubvisa, kusandura mamiriro ezvinhu, gara mumwe).

Kunzwisisa zvikonzero zvake "chisimbwa" kushanda. Asi kamwe Uri pano (kana pamwe kwete?) Chii zvachinja?

Shandisa klassiske nzira: Gurai pazasi pepa muzvikamu zviviri, chimwe, nyora zvakanakira basa, wechipiri - nezvayakaipira.

Chokwadi, pane imwe pamwero anofanira:

• yakadzikama mari, izvo zvinoita zvechigarire nzvimbo;

• mamiriro kushanda munhu kuti zvakakosha;

• munzvimbo yaakajaira (mabasa, zvinodiwa, zvakatipoteredza, etc.)

  asi:

• kushayikwa kufarira zvinokonzera chokuita nayo pamutemo, kuti chinobata unhu wayo (kutambura vanhu - vanotambura basa);

• nokushaiwa zvokuita kunofanira backlash utariri;

• mira nyanzvi uye basa kukura;

• nyanzvi havazozvikwanisi pave ane womukati kusagutsikana, kukudziridza ane uduku yakaoma, kunyanya kana tikafunga akakodzera uye vakabudirira nevamwe;

• Kazhinji, mamiriro ezvinhu kuwedzerwa low mubayiro - uyewo anobira chido, kunoderedza kuzvitsaurira;

• matambudziko kubasa kukonzera zvinetso zvoutano;

• kusagutsikana pamwe basa akaipa ari projected kuti upenyu hwemhuri - nyika collapses ...

The preponderance pakati zvazvakaipira pachena. Kuchengetedza chingwa zuva nezuva, tinowanzoona kuparadza pachavo somunhu.

Reality anomanikidzwa kumira pasi, kufunga musoro uye kuita mapundu mabasa. Nyore kurasikirwa, kusanganisira basa. Find mutsva (kudzidza mumwe basa idzva, vapfumi, mukurumbira, pakuziva hope ndaviga) hakusi nyore.

Pashure pezvose, kunyange tsvina zvikuru, monotonous uye uninteresting basa ose zuva mumwe anoita. Sezvo pane mamiriyoni evanhu - hupenyu dzokwenyu pachake mitemo yayo. Asi munhu asingachadiwi basa anova sokusingatsungiririki mutsekwende, zvichitungamirira njodzi.

Unoda kurarama chinopenya uye anonakidza, kuitei paanoda?

Adzorere "Ndinoda" kuti "Ndinogona kuzviita, kukurira osvoyu, kukunda, uye zvichingodaro" kusiya asingachadiwi basa vamwe - vaya vanosarudza nayo. Win uye imi, uye basa.