Several mhinduro mubvunzo zvinorwadza nei Handina shamwari

Kuti munhu - pasocial munhu, kuratidza buda. Kunyange rapera munhu anonyara dzimwe nguva uchida kana musingabudisi, saka kanenge kugara munharaunda munhu kunzwa rutsigiro mumwe munhu, kana kanenge kunzwisisa uye tsitsi kune kwemasayendisiti kuti zviri kuitika munyika mweya. Zvisinei, vanhu vakawanda vari vedu channel zera nokusurukirwa uye nei handina shamwari? Tiri kurarama-tiri kwete munhu chitsuwa mugwenga, kumativi ose - vazhinji, uye akadana shamwari imwe ... Uye ngatirege, nokuti Mutange, ngationei mubvunzo: Ndiani uyu "shamwari", uye sei zvakasiyana kubva "shamwari" uye "shamwari."

Ungangove, mumwe nomumwe wedu kanenge kamwe muupenyu hwake, asi aiva neushamwari ruzivo (chakanaka kana chakaipa - nderimwe mubvunzo). Rangarirai chinosiyanisa kuti munhu nevamwe? Chekutanga, iwe vakatsvaka kukurukura vashanduri. Iwe nguva dzose aifanira kuudza mumwe. Uye iwe hausi kutya kuudza munhu uyu zvavo kupfuura muchivande pfungwa, pasina kutya kuti achaita akasekwa kana vakanyarara nokuzvidzwa. Chechipiri, muri tinonzwira kuda kubatsira shamwari yake, zvikuru uri ainzwira urombo penhamo yacho yose uye mufaro. Uye, Chikurukuru, ita iwe kuchigamuchira nokuda chii, kuti, usaedza 'kubata' uye dzidzisa. Makavapa zano, kuti vasataure maonero avo, sezvakanga zvazvinofanira zano chete noushamwari uye mazano, uye kwete zvirevo uye tsika. Zvino yava nguva kuenda mubvunzo kuti nei munhu izere shamwari, uye handina shamwari chaidzo?

Upenzi mhosva pachako kuti hatina "simba", izvo ushamwari. Upenzi mhosva vamwe, ivo asina hanya kupfuura uye iwe haudi kuona munhu anoshamisa munhu uri. Asi mhinduro yomubvunzo wokuti nei handina shamwari, iri mundege pamusoro interpersonal kukurukura iwe akarikomberedza vanhu. Munhu ane shamwari 100, haatyi kuzviudza vamwe. Mupfungwa iyi, tinogona kutaura kuti ushamwari - zviri zvechokwadi ngozi. Asi sezvo vanoti, hapana akashinga, hapana kunwa shambeini.

Nditende, ipapo zvakakupoteredza vanhu iwe pasina mubereko. Chete, zvichida, vashoma pakati pavo vari tichipfuurira uye murwere kushivirira wako "sniff spiny tyoni".

Zvichida voga wako ane nheyo dzaro; kutengeswa aimbova shamwari anogona apikise kuti kutendeseka yose rwevanhu. Zvisinei, kana munhu achinge atengeswa kwauri, hazvirevi kuti munhu wacho achaita zvakafanana, uye kusavimbika - ". Handina zvimwe shamwari" hakusi chikonzero kutaura, Kana iwe - ane munhu anonyara, iwe kashoma kuti nokusurukirwa, asi nyika yenyu yomukati asingadi kutambura kana ukarega mumwe munhu ipapo. Tanga Blog uye nyora pasi zviitiko zvenyu uye pfungwa dzinonakidza - pamusoro nguva unenge vabhadhare chaivo "buddylist" kuti - ndiani anoziva? - vanogona kuva shamwari chaidzo muupenyu chaihwo.

"Ndiani anoda - rudo" - rwakaimbwa yakakurumbira rwiyo. Mhinduro yomubvunzo nei handina shamwari, kazhinji iri kusada kana nekusagona rudo. You kugoverana manzwiro ako, taurira matambudziko, asi zvakaipisisa hakunakidzi kuteerera mumwe munhu nyaya maronda uye vicissitudes mhuri shoma-anozivikanwa vanhu? Edza kubatwa kwete senzira yokuti vanhu kudurura mweya wake, asi sezvo kune dzimwe nyika, zvisingazivikanwi uye zvinofadza zvikuru.

Ngatitii une zvikuru pakatarisana nyaya yacho: uchinyatsondida yakawanda yokunyatsoongorora womumwe upenyu, ndinoda kuti kuteerera nyaya nevamwe vanhu uye vanotaura pamusoro akaita zvakarurama, asi ndiani chinhu chakaipa. Nokuti zvose sociability kwenyu uye chido waipa vamwe mazano (! Nekuti aunotoziva upenyu), Nokukurumidza Utange kunzwa vakakupoteredza Vacuum uye zvibvunze vavhiringidzika: sei handina shamwari? Ushamwari hunovakirwa kuremekedza mumwe munhu. Ngatiregei pana mukana wose, asi chete kana vanhu chokwadi kuvabvunza. Kwete kudzidzisa, kwete moralizing, uye chero zvazvingava regai vanodzika vanhu.