Nzira yekuti "kwete" uye usagumbusa interlocutor?

Zuva rimwe nerimwe mumwe nomumwe wedu anogamuchira kubva kune vanhu nhamba yakawanda yezvikumbiro nezvikumbiro. Vamwe vavo havagoni kusiyiwa, asi ndinoda vamwe, asi kwete nguva dzose. Apo, chokwadi, ndinofanira kubvumirana kubatsira, uye rinonzwisisika rini kuramba? Nzira yekuti "kwete" uye urambe uine hukama hwakanaka nemunhu akakutaurira?

Ndezvipi zvakakosha chaizvo kuti titi "kwete"?

Iwe unogara uchibvumirana kubatsira here kana iwe uchikumbira kuita izvi? Mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, kunyange kufunga kwekuramba hakugoneki, somuenzaniso, kana chikumbiro chinobva kumutungamiriri uye chinonyatsoenderana nemabasa ako. Kana iwe uchibvunzwa nezvechimwe chinhu nemumwe munhu wausina kusungwa nemhosva yezvikwereti, iwe unofanira kufungisisa pamusoro pemhinduro isina kunaka. Kutungamirirwa kunotevera mukana wekupa rubatsiro - une zvigadziro zvakakwana (kwenguva pfupi, zvinhu kana zvimwewo) kubvumirana here? Hazvizoiti here kushanda kwemabasa ehumwe nemamwe maitiro kukanganisa bhizinesi rako? Iva nechokwadi chekuteerera iwe pachako manzwiro. Iwe unonzwa usina hanya, kana mufaro here? Uye zvichida, kutsamwa, uye pfungwa yose ndeyokuti iwe hauzive kuti ungati sei "kwete"?

Sei zvakaoma kuramba?

Nguva dzose rubatsiro kune vamwe kunoita kuti unzwe wakarurama. Iyi manzwiro haakwani kune vanhu vakawanda munyika yanhasi. Vamwe vanotenderana nekuda kwekutya kukakavara. Tinotya kukakavadzana nekuda kwekuramba nemunhu anenge achitsvaga kana kunzwa kunzwa kutsoropodzwa mune imwe kero yake. Vamwe vane unyanzvi vane mano vanoedza kuvhiringidza avo vanotambudzwa kuti mukutsinhanisa rubatsiro ivo rimwe zuva vanozvipa ivo pachavo. Zvechokwadi, iwe pachako waifanira kupa rumwe rudzi rwe "hupfumi uye hunokosha" masangano, ayo akazokanganwa nezvezvivimbiso kana kuti akanga asina kukwana zvachose. Chimwe chikonzero chekukwikwidza kwechimbichimbi - iwe hauzivi kuti ungati sei "kwete." Kuramba iwe pachako hazvina maturo kwauri uye nokuda kwechikonzero ichi zviri nyore kwazvo kuti iwe ubvumirane, pane kupindura zvisina kunaka.

Ita kuti kwete!

Nzira iri nyore yekuramba ndeyekutaura chokwadi kumunhu wauri kutaurira. Usatanga zvikonzero, tsanangura kuti nei iwe usingagoni kana kuti usingadi kubvumirana nechikumbiro chake. Iva wakagadzirira kuti kukaramba kuchazotevera nemafungiro akawanda kana kuvimbiswa. Nzvimbo yakanakisisa mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ndeyokunyarara asi nekudzoka nekudzokorora "kwete" uye kureva kuti zvikonzero zvave zvatsanangurwa. Unyanzvi hwokutaura "kwete" unyanzvi hunodiwa kuti hugadziridzwe uye huvandudzike, saka usaora mwoyo kana usingashandisi kokutanga.

Imwe nzira inobatsira yokutaura "kwete" ndeyokuziva iwe pachako kusakwanisa. Tsanangurai kumubvunzi kuti iwe hausi iye munhu akakodzera kugadzirisa basa rake. Usanonoka kupindura kunyengedza kana mumwe munhu achigara achichinja mabasa avo kwauri. Rimwe zuva ngongobvunza kuti: "Sei ndichifanira kukubatsira?". Kuti arege kukanganisa mutauriri, asati aramba, kumubvunza zvakadzama nezve dambudziko uye kupa mamwe mazano. Zvinogoneka kuti mushure mokuongorora tsanangudzo yemamiriro ezvinhu uye kudiwa kwekubatsira kuchapera, uye maererano, haufaniri kufunga kuti ungati "kwete."