Chii chiri kubuda? Kubuda: ukoshi

The dzepabonde chimurenga akapa varume nevakadzi rusununguko rwokusarudza pabonde. Izvi zvakatungamirira kuti paumbwe ungochani vakaroorana. Panguva iyoyo pane pfungwa itsva, chokuita zvimwe zvinhu zvoupenyu uye maitiro evanhu vane zvakasiyana zvebonde zviito. Kazhinji, mashoko aya vemamwe mavambo, uye havasi zvachose pachena kuti vagari, kure "zvitema" uye "Pink" dingindira.

Somuenzaniso, haasi munhu wose anoziva zviri kubuda. Sei zvakasiyana kubva yakafanana yokuti "kwavaizoenda". Zvichakadaro, mune dzimwe madenderedzwa chinowanzoonekwa kushandiswa mashoko, izvo kunyange ine yayo zororo kwegore. Asi zvinhu zvokutanga pakutanga.

Chii chiri kubuda?

Shoko iri akakweretwa kubva mutauro Chirungu uye rakashandurwa rinoreva "kuburitsa", "kunze muwadhiropu." Male kana munhukadzi, pachena uye, zvikuru pazvese, nokuzvidira akabvuma zvepabonde yavo kana mafungiro avo kuti vakadzi vashoma, anoita chiito kunzi kubuda. Kazhinji, tsanangudzo rakaiswa chokuita ngochani ngochani, zvepabonde nevarume uyewo nevakadzi uye transgender vanhu (rakapfupikiswa sezvo boka vanhu raireva LGBT) uyo pachena kubvuma zvavakakundikana dzepabonde zvaunofarira kana kuti muviri yavo hakuiti kunowirirana avo ezvinhu mupfungwa.

Kwavaizoenda - zviri pachena airatidza chokwadi choupenyu unconventional pachake, asi vamwe muchimiro nechisimba, kuzorwa kuda ngochani. Izvi kunowanzoitwa kusiya munhu zvikanganise mukurumbira wake, basa, kushandura mafungiro evanhu kwazviri, nekuti zvose nyika varipo homophobic. Kunyange evanhu vemazuva ano, havasi vanhu vose vanoda kuzarura musuo wake yokurara, asi kune vaya vari kugutsikana kunyanya veruzhinji vobuda kuzochera kufunga pachavo uye kuwana zvimwe mukurumbira, ari kwomurume vanhu. Fani iyi inowanikwa zvikuru dzinoratidza mubhizimisi.

A zvishoma chokwadi chenhau dzine

nguva yokutanga inokosha pfungwa Cuming-kunze kufunga muna 1869. Ndakaita izvozvo gweta wokuGermany uye wenhau, kuchengetedza kodzero uye zvinodiwa zviduku, Karl Genrih Ulrihs. Akanga ari pfungwa kuti kana uchida kuti vaonekwe, unofanira kuzivisa kwazvo roga kuburikidza kuuya-kunze. Kukosha kwechiitiko ichi, maererano vokuGermany, hombe akavhura ngochani anogona kuva nesimba pamusoro pavanhu uye simba kushandisa. Yokutanga paruzhinji anokosha munhu akanga asingatyi kutaura chokwadi nezvake, aiva nyanduri American Robert Duncan. Aita kubuda, uye nokukurumidza akadziviswa kubva kuhondo. Pashure paizvozvo, mumagazini, akati kuti munyika uye pasi pose vanomanikidzwa vashoma.

Pakati pezana remakore rechi20, pfungwa "kubuda" nokuda wepfungwa Evelyn Hooker, uyo wakayeriswa yakawanda basa rake kudzidza ngochani munharaunda, hachisisiri jargon mberi zvesayenzi mazwi.

Kukosha Cuming-kunze

Moral kugutsikana muupenyu kunoitika chete kana munhu anorarama maererano kwete chete pachavo asiwo voruzhinji. Kuti uite izvi, unofanira kuva ushingi kuti vataure dzavo dzepabonde zvatinoda pachena. Kana murume kana mukadzi here ngochani, vakagamuchira chokwadi ichi uye vane chivimbo mune sarudzo yako, haufaniri kuudzitira, kamafurashi kwomurume ukama, kunyange vakaroorana vasingadi nokuda kwenzanga. Izvi ane kunambwa pfungwa mamiriro ari munhu. Pano anogona chete kubatsira kubuda. The kukosha mhosva tirambe kukanganisa hurumende, manzwiro, panouya akamirirwa kwenguva refu zororo.

Izvi ndozvazvakaita kunzwisisa pamusoro chikamu vateereri. Asi, panzvimbo tsika, ichi zvinoitika kwete nguva dzose. Ndokusaka pane zvakawanda mabhuku panyaya "Chii chiri kubuda" sei uye rini kuita nani. Mumwe inozivikanwa zvikuru manual, rakanyorwa American sangano "Vabereki, mhuri uye shamwari ngochani uye lesbians."

Muitiro kukudzwa

Cuming-outs - kunzwisisa multi-danho pezvakaitwa. Vanachiremba angarayira kuti zvishoma nezvishoma kuvhura vose zvavo zvepabonde, kutangira kudiwa ane pedyo shamwari kana mhuri nhengo uyo zvikuru inodziya, simba, tichivimba ukama. Kazhinji zvinoitika kuti munhu vasiri chinyakare uzivewo zvose vaaishanda navo uye neshamwari, asi havazivi pedyo nehama. Dzimwe kuudza mutorwa ari nyore pane ake. Vamwe tsvakurudzo, vakazvitsaurira Cuming-panze mukuru kubudirana pachena womunhu munzanga, zvakaratidza kuti zvishoma munhu anovanda vamwe zvishoma iye nhema, huta, kunetseka.

Kuziva vabereki

Mumwe yakaomesesa matanho Cuming-kunze anoonekwa kuonekwa pamberi vabereki vavo. Havagoni kugamuchira mashoko zvakarurama nokunzwisisa. Vabereki vanoshamiswa kudzidza kuti mwana wavo haasi kufanana vose. Vanoda nguva uye rubatsiro kubva wepfungwa. Vabereki vakawanda vanoramba kugamuchira chokwadi ichi, anogona kuranga vana, kusateerera, kunze mumba, kuvaregedza. Vamwe imwe nguva kuedza kudzivisa chero kukurukurirana zvepabonde nyaya, muchitenda kuti zvose izvi upenzi, zera, mutengo, uye kana musingadi pfungwa nhoroondo iyi, zvose inoenda woga.

Other vabereki kufungisisa ungochani chirwere, tanga kubata vana vavo uchibatsirwa reparative mishonga. All Zviito izvi vanaamai navanababa vari kukonzera zvakaipa zvakakura pfungwa mwana wacho, chete kwira zvinhu.

2013 - gore Cuming-kunze

October 11 anonzi mukuru musi zvose yeuka kuti achibuda, uyewo tarisa voruzhinji kuziva kwete chete neshamwari nehama, asiwo anokosha vanhu vakakurumbira kubva yacho. Kubva gore negore nhamba LGBT enyika, vaimbi, vatambi uye vatambi, izvo zvinoratidza kuti vanhu dzavasina kutya vanhu nokutonga, uye asiri chinyakare sarudzo kuri kuva chakaipa nazvo. Zvinokuchengetedzai kutaura kuti muna 2013 vaisava rimwe masikati pupuro, kuvakoka kuti 365. Udza zvose kuzivikanwa kusakwanisika, kuti nhamba yavo hombe, asi kuti chinonyanya yokufungidzira uye kwazvo kuzivisa:

1. Dzhodi Foster zvakamuita kubuda panguva mubairo mhemberero yacho Golden Globes.
2. American mutambi Wentworth Miller akazivisa ungochani yake tsamba pokuramba kuuya Russia, sezvo pane homophobes zhinji.
3. British dhaivha Tom Daley akatora vhidhiyo kureurura ake uye akariisa paIndaneti.
4. Canadian mutambi uye muimbi Victor Garber akaita akabvuma kuti ndiye ingochani uye ari kudanana nemurume kwemakore 14.
5. NBA Basketball mutambi Dzheyson Kollinz, uyo akasarudza kuti unofanira kuva vakatendeseka wose.
6. Philippine muimbi Charris.
7. Robbi Rodzhers akati kuti akanga ngochani, uye akarega nhabvu.
8. Irish mutambi Endryu Skott, vakarega kudzidza mutauro wokuRussia muna Putin kuti kutaura VV pashure akaita mutemo homophobic.
9. Purofesa wepfungwa Dinesh protuberance.
10. Muaizi Brian Boitano.