The zvinokonzera matambudziko akawanda mupfungwa iri zviduku: kwepfungwa zvakaitika muuduku. Nhasi isu nezvoUmambo nezvinetso zvepfungwa kuti yakabuda nokuda raiita chakaipa maitiro vabereki.
Kuzvidya mwoyo, kutadza kuva yakazvimirira
Vamwe vabereki vanofunga kuti vanofanira kuchengeta nguva dzose ziso mwana wako, pasinei makore mazhinji akanga. Zvisinei, havasi funga kuti overprotection kazhinji kunotungamirira nezvinetso zvepfungwa. Kana usingakwanisi kuita chisarudzo chinokosha pasina kubvunza vabereki, zvinoreva kuti uri umwe wevana ava.
Bad tsika uye chido nemitambo yokunyanyisa
Kana vabereki vari kuramba vachitaura mwana wako kuti anosika yakawanda nematambudziko, ipapo tichikufunga aizouya pakugumisa kuti pasina iye zvingava nani. Somugumisiro, mwana rinokura kuva mukuru uyo anowana nzira zvakakwana kuparadza roga kuburikidza nokushandisa doro, kusvuta, kushandisa madhiragi kana mitambo yokunyanyisa.
Kutadza kuzorora
"Iva zvakakomba!" "Regai goofing kubvisa!" "Usava mwana!" Dzidzo kwakadaro kuchaita kuti chokwadi kuti mwana kukura ova kwakakomba zvakare munhu hadzikwanisi dzikama vana havagoni kunzwisisa uye ruvengo saibva vanhu.
Kusanyatsozviremekedza, chido kutevedzera munhu
Vabereki enzanisa mwana wavo ane zvimwe "ruzivo" vana achawana kuzvitsoropodza kuyaruka uye pave paya akura munhu ane uduku yakaoma. Achaedza kuita zvose zvakanakisisa sezvinobvira uye kuvenga pachangu nokuda nokukundikana.
Matambudziko muupenyu hwake pachake
Vabereki vari kuramba vachiongorora mwana uye usavimba naye, achakwanisa kuunza munhu achava ndinoona nyika sezvo musungo uye kubata naye kuvengana. akura Izvi zvichaita nematambudziko akakura nechivimbo.
Search rubatsiro nevabereki
"Uri muduku izvozvo!" - iyi ndiyo nzira yakarurama kusimudza munhu kunyange vakura kuva mwana. Zvichida, achagara "diki", haagoni kuva dzakazvimirira, nguva dzose akatendeuka vabereki rubatsiro.
The kusafarira uye zvokuita, inoparadza kuchiva
Kana vabereki kakawanda vanoshandisa mashoko okuti "Usava kunyanyochena!" Kana "Regai mumakore!", Vana avo vasina maonero, chero chirongwa kana zveutungamiri. Sezvo vakuru, vanowanzova achinyudza vavariro yavo doro uye mafaro.
Pakavanda, kushaya Manzwiro
Kushaikwa Manzwiro uye nehanya nevabereki mwana anonzwa panguva subconscious pamwero. Kana iwe Kazhinji kutaura kuti akabva arega kuchema uye vachinyunyuta, mwana anovhara pachako. Izvi woutsinye manzwiro anogona dzikava matambudziko psychosomatic.
Depression, kunzwa mhosva
"Isu mubato zvose iwe kudzidza!" The kunzwa usina mhosva kusuruvara mwana. Izvi zvinoshandawo kutyisidzira varombo ratings - mwana ari kugara makakatanwa.
Kushaikwa rusununguko, irresponsibility, passivity
Kune vabereki zvakare paranoid avo usarega mwana wavo chete danho. "Usabata katsi! Iye Zvichada muvare! "" Regai kugara pamupendero, iwe kuwa! "Mashoko aya kuita mwana achitya kuita chisarudzo. Somugumisiro, uyewo anovandudza passivity uye irresponsibility.